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I shouldn’t have to tell you that the depersonalisation of East Asian women is extremely damaging. In the end, no matter where you are in the world, or how much you love and trust your partner, there will always be this little voice inside your head telling you that you could be replaced by another woman with the same physical features. They reserve tables on rooftop bars and act like colonial soldiers, surrounding themselves with Chinese women whom they often provide for financially, even though most of them have a wife and kids waiting for them back home. Many white expats ( laowai) are the direct progeny of Western imperialism and indulge fully in their East Asian fetishism.

When I used to visit my sister in Shanghai, I would constantly get into arguments with white men trying to woo me with their lousy broken Mandarin. Even within China, women continue to be fetishised by white people.